Fathers Day / March 4, 2019 / Cecelia Montgomery.
He taught us through "trickery." My father would "trick" us into doing chores he thought we may not want to do such as "Girls dont you dare polish my shoes." Being daring girls - wed polish his shoes. It was Dads game but we were always willing players. Dad enjoyed simple things like this and he appreciated having these chores done. He was such a kind man that he found his pleasure not in receiving but in giving. This was one of the greatest lessons we all learned from Dad. When his girls grew up and left the nest food would appear in our cupboards from "no where." Money would be found in our purses mysteriously but always after a visit from Dad.
A little indulgent gift Give your husband a treat and find a special edib gift for him like fruit bouquets which may not sound like it but are a fun and exciting gift to receive. Fruit bouquets are fruit sculptures made by cutting fresh fruit and sometimes dipping it in chocolate so that they look like flowers in bloom. Theyre absolutely delicious in-budget gifts for fathers day. Theyre made with a huge variety of fruit like chocolate covered strawberries pineapple daisy slices covered in chocolate apple wedges oranges melons grapes bananas melons and lots more. You probably remember when your son was born and the special moments that followed that seem like just yesterday. Now your son is the dad and experiencing those precious moments for himself.
At the end of the party give the Fathers Day sweets to him. On Fathers Day dont let your father do some house works. If he heads to his work room or garage prevent him! Ask what hes planning to do and if you can handle it - do it for him instead. Treat him like a king on this very special day. Spend more time with him. Most days of the week he is out working his butt off for the family. Dedicate the entire Sunday spending time with him. Watch his favorite sports with him ask him to tell you stories or tell him yours instead. Before you call it a day give him a big hug and some sweets.
But then why not make merry one day and shower your father with gifts which is one way of showing your love and affection to your father. Fathers day is observed all over the world on the third Sunday of June every year to give your father gifts and appreciate him for all that he has done for you. Fathers day is not what it is made out to be. Indeed you should give your dad gifts and shower all your love on him but remember; gifts alone cannot make up for the emotional vacuum he feels. You have grown up and busy with your family while he feels neglected. In this fast age and stressful lifestyles perhaps fathers dont get enough recognition for all that they have done for their family and kids. Use your own imagination in choosing the gift for your dad.
Men often give themselves a hard time. They often expect themselves to be strong masterful providers to work long hours be successful in their careers whilst at the same time being loving sensitive partners and fathers keen and enthusiastic about sharing and spending time with their families. Lets take some time this weekend to stop and celebrate fathers on Fathers Day. For many of us there are different father figures in our lives apart from the father who gave us our genetic makeup; step fathers grandfathers fathers-in-law as well as other key male role models can play a significant part in influencing our opinion of men and our expectations from male relationships in the future.